Online Dating: Time Investment
I was asked a really great question today …
How much time should you invest in someone you’re talking to online?
You match, you start messaging, you feel there might be potential.
You start messaging regularly, you exchange numbers, you start texting.
Time passes, you’re still chatting regularly but haven’t met.
You stick with it because you’re already invested. Time continues to pass.
Hard Truth #1: There is no REAL connection or relationship until you meet in person.
Hard Truth #2: If someone you’re messaging doesn’t ask you or isn’t interested when you offer to meet it’s a red flag.
Take it for what it is.
We often ignore our intuition in dating.
Listen to it, it’s telling you who’s interested and who’s not.
Invest in those who are investing in you.